Here in Seahawks territory, Blue Fridays are a big deal, and the students in our school proudly wear their Seahawks gear every week.
But there are a few dissenters, who also proudly–and bravely–wear their team shirts. They know that while they may take some ribbing, they won’t face out-and-out hostility, because our rule is: You can support your team, but you can’t bash anyone else’s.
Bad sportsmanship is good entertainment in today’s society, which is why it’s so important to teach emotional middle schoolers and teens what good sportsmanship looks like. Whether it’s the team they’re on, or a college or professional team, teens need to know the difference between being a fan and being a bully. Cheering for one’s team, “repping” their colors, and flying the team flag are all acceptable ways to show support. Trash talking about the other team, defacing their posters, and calling the players names are not.
Teaching good sportsmanship goes right along with teaching common courtesy (holding the door for the person behind you), using manners (not burping loudly in a restaurant), and apologizing appropriately. And it’s not enough to just teach it; adults need to model it as well.
As I always say, it’s part of our job to civilize ’em–and a big weekend filled with Super Bowl parties is the perfect time.
After we took the (staged) picture above, the nose-thumbing young man behind the Broncos fan patted his back and said, “Poor guy! You know we love you–even if we don’t love your team!”
I’m pretty sure Russell Wilson would approve. (Go, Hawks!)